Invest in yourself and do things alone. Now I’m not saying to be a perpetual loner.  What I’m saying is to get to know yourself.   I know people who won’t go anywhere by themselves or certain places such as the movies, dinner, the beach or the grocery store.

I must ask, how can you expect anyone to be alone with you all the time when you have trouble being alone with yourself?  Take yourself to the movies or lunch or dinner.  Dress up and make it special.  It may be uncomfortable at first, but you will find that it is quite liberating.

Charity Work.  If you have ever done anything out of the goodness of your being and expecting only thank you’s and smiles in return.  Then you know how important volunteering once in a while can fill you with fulfillment.  There’s “no pay” yet what you gain from the experience is so far beyond money that it transcends the physical plane.  Charity is a practice in compassion and service to humanity.  Choose a charity that speaks to you, personally.

Cell Phone Screen Saver

As I’ve said before in previous blogs.  We are magnets, attracting and repelling people, opportunities, and experiences.  One way to attract someone into your experience is to focus upon it.  Get a picture that represents love for you, preferebly something that illicits an emotional response(the more the picture makes you feel good the better.)  Use this picture as the screen saver on your phone.  Every time you look at your phone, the picture will be there reminding you of the love that “has already manifested into your life.”

Most importantly, choose what resonates with you and honor yourself.  The goal is to stretch your perception, the more you can perceive the more, options you will have.

I send you blessings on bringing love into your life.  Remember, when you are loving yourself, it makes it so much easier for someone else to love you.